Thanks for the good replies, nobody is wrong here 
Yes, I understand the white lies about security and privacy that we’re told to boot up mastodon, but this #openweb tech is literally dancing elephant troughing paper planes as a security/privacy model.
This is not the right tool for most of the “common sense” things you won’t, better off with tech built for privacy and control, the is a LOT of this mature tech out there.
Inclosing the “commons” is a bad history for native society.
Let’s try and check focus on the “unspoken/unthinking” political aspect to this, much of this desire and proposed tech path comes from #mainstreaming liberalism where the Fediverse is not “native” to this thinking, coming from a more “trust” based anarchistic path.